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My Top Ten Unpopular Bookish Opinions

Posted April 14, 2025 by Jana in About Me, Top Ten Tuesday / 33 Comments

Welcome to another TTT! This week’s topic is “My Unpopular Bookish Opinions”. Differing opinions is a good thing! If we all agreed on everything, life would be so boring. Unpopular opinions are not necessarily bad or controversial or negative. Some of them are, of course, but that’s only because of the nature of the opinion and not because it’s unpopular. Maybe you think a super unpopular book is the best ever. Maybe you really, really love a character that many people you know couldn’t stand. Or maaaaybe there’s parts of your reading life or your habits that are unique to you. Whatever the case may be, I want to hear your thoughts!

1. For the most part, bookish social media is not a fun place to be. 
When I first joined the online bookish community 13 years ago, it was contained in a very small corner of the Internet and most of us were friends! I don’t remember seeing drama. I feel like every time I log in now there’s something negative happening. I miss how things used to be!

2. I don’t care about special editions of books.
It’s really fun if the first edition is special or limited to the first print run, but if I buy the book when it comes out and then months/years later a new edition comes out with a fancy cover and bonus content I really couldn’t care less. It feels like a a money grab.

3. Bonus chapters confuse the original narrative. 
And sometimes they change a major part of the story. If you wanted something in the book, put it in the book! I’m not going to jump through hoops (buy another edition, preorder the next book from a specific place, etc.) to read an extra chapter from someone else’s point of view.

4. I avoid books where the title is essentially a 4-5 word summary of the book’s synopsis. 
For example: Dating My Baby Daddy, Married to My Billionaire Boss, Tempted by the Werewolf Overlord, Stranded with My Sexy Barista, Flirting with My Best Friend’s Older Brother Firefighter, etc. Just please be more creative than that! (Yes, those are Jana original titles. I don’t know if these books exist or not. lol.)

5. Publishers need to stop marketing books as read-alikes of super popular, well-loved titles. 
Just because a book is about fae doesn’t mean it’s just like ACOTAR. Just because a book is regency romance doesn’t mean it’s for lovers of Julia Quinn, Tessa Dare, or Lisa Kleypas. Every historical romance does not need to be compared to Bridgerton. Every spicy book does not need to be for lovers of Tessa Bailey. I think it hurts a book so much to compare it to a viral title or author. It almost always leaves readers disappointed. Let the authors and books shine on their own without forcing the reader to go in with expectations!

6. The A ___ of ___ and ___ titles should have stopped 10 years ago.

7. I don’t enjoy debating about books with people. 
I will not fight someone who hates my favorite book, and I will not feed the trolls who come into the comments of my reviews and tell me my opinions are wrong. I respect you even if your favorite book is one I hate with the fire of a thousand suns! I see a lot of arguing about books, and I don’t know why people find that fun!

8. I love illustrated book covers. 
When done right, they are stunning. They can truly showcase a graphic designer’s talent and creativity. But they have to be detailed and follow the elements and principles of design. Don’t just throw some generic, faceless bodies onto a colorblocked cover with no other details and say it’s good enough.

9. My books and bookshelves are not decorations. 
I will never be the person who organizes her books by color, or who displays them pages out. I don’t care what height they are. I don’t buy books just because they’re pretty or cheap or would look good in a pic. My series go together, and books by the same author go together on my shelves regardless of paperback versus hardcover, size, or color. I need to be able to find things! And I love the look of a crammed-full bookshelf.

10. Romance is different than steam. 
I love romance novels so much. Opened door, closed door, love them all. But I don’t go into a romance hoping for steam. I have read many extremely romantic, closed-door books. I care more about the story and the characters and the swoons. If the steam is there and it works, great. Love it. These scenes can really enrich a romance. But if the steam is thrown in just for the sake of making a book spicy, that’s cringey for me.

Please no tomatoes!
Do you agree with any of my opinions?
What’s one of your unpopular bookish opinions?

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My 2024 in Books | A Meme

Posted January 16, 2025 by Jana in About Me / 3 Comments

Anne at HeadFullofBooks linked me to a fun meme by Adam Burgess and suggested I participate! The rules are pretty easy. You just answer each prompt with a title of a book you read in 2024! I thought it sounded like fun, so here we go! I’m going to try to only use a book title once. Hopefully this works. lol

In high school I was… 

The Exception to the Rule (Christina Lauren)
Ever the teacher’s pet. lol. I got away with everything!

People might be surprised (by my)…

Desperate Acts (Alexandra Ivy)
I’ve put myself through a lot in my life to try and find answers about my health.

I will never be…

A Friend in the Dark (Samantha M. Bailey)
I’ll be a friend always.

My fantasy job is…

The Honeymoon Crashers (Christina Lauren)
Personally, I think it sounds like a lot of fun to go on other peoples’ vacations.

At the end of a long day I need…

French Holiday (Sarah Ready)
A trip to Paris sounds like the perfect recovery for a long day to me!

I hate it when…

A Stranger is Watching (Mary Higgins Clark)
Creepy!

I wish I had…

Just Friends Forever (Martha Keyes)
I want a really close-knit friend group like the one in Friends, Big Bang Theory, or Saved by the Bell!

My family reunions are…

In a Not So Perfect World (Neely Tubati Alexander)
My family is very tiny, and my grandparents have passed away so it’s not the same anymore.

At a party you’d find me with…

Mr. October (Bethany Weever)
He sounds dreamy!

I’ve never been to…

The Spellshop (Sarah Beth Durst)
But oh how I would love to visit this magical place!

A happy day includes…

For Butter or for Worse (Dana LeCheminant)
I really love butter. Give me something buttery, and the day is a win!

Motto I live by…

Never Blow a Kiss (Lindsay Lovise)
You never know who might catch it!

On my bucket list is…

A Mistletoe Kiss (Catherine Walsh)
I’m a romantic and would love to find my person someday!

In my next life, I want to have…

A Holiday by Gaslight (Mimi Matthews)
Can I come back in one of my historical romance novels and spend Christmas at a glittering house party?

What books did you read in 2024 that fit these prompts?
If you decide to participate in this meme, please comment with a link so I can come visit!


My Top Ten Bookish Goals for 2025

Posted January 13, 2025 by Jana in About Me, Top Ten Tuesday / 64 Comments


Welcome to another TTT! Are you getting back into the swing of things now that we’re into the second week of 2025? I still want to write 2024 all the time, and it’s going to be a fun month trying to get used to this. LOL. Looking ahead, what are you hoping to accomplish in your bookish life this year? I try not to put undue pressure on myself and just come up with some fun hopes and wishes to help guide my reading when I’m in a slump or not sure what to read. I’m excited to lurk on some blogs this week and see what you inspire me to do!

1. Read 52 (or more) books. 
Back when I read YA, I was reading 70+ books each year but the books were shorter than the adult novels I read now! One book a week seems like a sustainable goal for me. Last year I read 53 pretty easily, so I’m going to stick with that goal and not push myself to read too quickly. I also want time to do other things!

2. Work on that Netgalley ratio!!
Friends, I am struggling with this. I know I’ve said this before, but back in the olden days this ratio didn’t exist and, as a baby blogger who was excited to review books, I requested everything I thought I might like (not expecting to be approved for them all). But I was. lol. I dug myself into a huge hole that I’ve been spending years trying to climb out of. I’m hoping this is the year I hit the recommended 80% (although, if I’m being realistic maybe 60% would be enough to make me feel better this year).

3. Request and accept fewer books for review.
This kind of goes hand in hand with #2. I don’t want to fill my plate so full that I can’t enjoy my Kindle Unlimited and Audible memberships, my library, and the books I already have on my shelves or receive as gifts. For years, I exclusively read review copies and missed out on a lot of other titles I was super excited about.

4. Read more backlist titles.
Being a slower reader means I don’t get to all the books I want to read the year they come out. And then I get bogged down in all the shiny new books the next year and forget about the ones that I was dying for before their releases.

5. Write more reviews, even if they’re tiny. 
I put a lot of pressure on myself to write long, detailed reviews, but sometimes I’m not in the right head space for that! But even just a short paragraph would be worth blogging, right? Would you be happy to read a to-the-point, paragraph-long review or would you skip past it and look for a longer one from someone else?

6. Read more physical books from my shelves.
I’ve got a lot of books on my shelves that get ignored because a Kindle is easier. I want to read my physical books, see if I love them, and donate them if I don’t so I have room for more!

7. Embrace whatever mood I’m in.
This goes for books as well as how I choose to spend my time. If I’m in the mood for a month of thrillers, I need to do it. If I’m reading a book and find I’m not in the mood for it, I need to set it aside or DNF it and find a book I am in the mood for. And if I;m not in the mood to read because I want to binge watch Friends or play a game on my Nintendo Switch, that’s ok too!

8. Re-read more. 
I never used to re-read, but I’ve started doing it more lately and I didn’t realize how much I’d still love my favorite books the second time around! I always worried that I’d get tired of them or decide I don’t like them, but so far re-reading has only brought more joy. And I need all the joy.

9. Prioritize the books I’m most excited about no matter when they come/came out.
Being a mood reader means grabbing what I want when I want it. Reading is not my job. It’s not school. I’m in charge and nobody else. If I want to start a book tonight that has a release date in October, I’m starting it tonight anyway! And if I’m super excited to start a book that came out 50 years ago, that’s fine too. I don’t always have to be reading the latest trending books.

10. Be ruthless with the DNF. 
I own or have access to more books that I will be able to read in my lifetime. So I need to DNF more and find the very best of the best. Life is too short for books I’m not enjoying!

What are some of your reading goals this year?
How many books are you hoping to read in 2025?


2024 End of Year Book Survey

Posted January 9, 2025 by Jana in About Me / 8 Comments

I love doing Jamie’s End of Year Book Survey every year, although I’ve added a few of my own questions and removed some of hers in order to make it work a little better for me. This survey helps me look back and remember all the wonderful (and terrible) books I’ve read throughout the year! Also… buh bye 2024. Don’t let the door hit you on the way out. Can 2025 please be better? So far, I am quite busy which is why I’m so late with this post! (Note: If I’ve mentioned books more than once, I’m only linking to them the first time so my post doesn’t look spammy!)

2024 Reading Stats

Number of books you read: 53 (all featured in the images right below this section)
Number of re-reads: 2
Number of books you DNFed: 46 (not featured in the images below)
Number of pages you read: 14,358
Most read genre: Contemporary romance! I read 34 of them.
Number of new-to-you authors you discovered: 32, I think?

Firsts and Lasts

First book you read: Never Blow a Kiss by Lindsay Lovise
Last book you read:
The Two Bells of Christmas by Joanna Barker
First 2024 release you read: Never Blow a Kiss by Lindsay Lovise

Best In Books

1. Best book you read in 2024:
This is hard, so I’m dividing it up by genre:
Contemporary: Four Weekends and a Funeral by Ellie Palmer
Historical: Never Blow a Kiss by Lindsay Lovise
Fantasy: The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst

2. Book you were excited about & thought you were going to love more but didn’t:
The Paradise Problem by Christina Lauren had all the makings of favorite book for me, but I ended up being so disappointed in it. I hated how Anna was portrayed (like is she really this dumb and hopeless?). I am so tired of the Manic Pixie Dream Girl, and that’s what the authors are trying so hard to have her be. I hated the main dude’s entire family. I loved the setting. This could have been so good, but they took everything good from The Unhoneymooners and did the opposite. Wanna know something crazy? A CLo book was my answer for this question in 2023, too. What is happening?!

I was also really surprised that I ended up DNFing some books from authors I really like, such as Haunted Ever After by Jen DeLuca, A Fire in the Sky by Sophie Jordan, The Rule Book by Sarah Adams, and A Fate Inked in Blood by Danielle L. Jensen.

3. Most surprising (in a good way or bad way) book you read:
This is hard, because nothing really surprised me. This really was a pretty meh reading year for me. I guess my biggest surprise was how disappointing The Paradise Problem was.

4. Book you “pushed” the most people to read (and they did):
I was more of a quiet reader this year, not really pushing books like I usually do, but I think I talked about The Spellshop more than any other book this year.

5. Best first book in a series you started in 2024. Best sequel of 2024. Best series ender of 2024.
First: Second Duke’s the Charm by Kate Bateman
Sequel: Just Friends Forever by Martha Keyes
Ender: Business Casual by B.K. Borison

6. Favorite new-to-you author you discovered in 2024:
Betty Cayouette

7. Best book from a genre you don’t typically read/was out of your comfort zone:
I didn’t jump too far out of my comfort zone this year, but I think it’s because I’ve expanded my comfort genres a lot over the years!

8. Most action-packed/thrilling/unputdownable book of the year:
Even though it was a re-read, I still adore The Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren! I couldn’t put it down… again!

9. Book you read in 2024 that you are most likely to re-read next year?
The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst

10. Favorite cover of a book you read in 2024:
A Holiday by Gaslight by Mimi Matthews

11. Most memorable character of 2024:
Ok, there’s a tie so I’m breaking this down to most memorable human character and most memorable plant character.

Human: Guy Maple from The Christmas You Found Me by Sarah Morgenthaler
Plant: Caz the spider plant from The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst. This plant is the cutest, and I think listening to the audio made him better for me! Such a fun personality!

12. Most beautifully written book read in 2024:
The Christmas You Found Me by Sarah Morgenthaler was so beautifully written and emotional and tender. I was honestly terrified to read it because the synopsis sounded like it was going to be somber and heavy and a difficult read. I don’t like reading books like that, especially Christmas ones, but this was wonderful and hopeful and so, so sweet.

13. Most thought-provoking/life-changing book of 2024:
Well gosh, I had no idea The Christmas You Found Me by Sarah Morgenthaler would fit so many prompts. I reflected a lot on healing, grief, going through hard things, finding joy wherever you go, and perseverance while reading it.

14. Book you can’t believe you waited UNTIL 2024 to finally read:
A Stranger Is Watching by Mary Higgins Clark, only because it has been out for nearly 50 years and I have loved MHC since I was a kid so how had I not read it yet? lol.

15. Favorite quote from a book you read in 2024:

“It wasn’t that she didn’t like people. It was only that she liked books more. They didn’t fuss or judge or mock or reject. They invited you in, fluffed up the pillows on the couch, offered you tea and toast, and shared their hearts with no expectation that you’d do anything more than absorb what they had to give.”
– The Spellshop
by Sarah Beth Durst

16. Shortest and longest books you read in 2024:
Shortest: A Mistletoe Kiss by Catherine Walsh (25 pages)
Longest: A Court This Cruel and Lovely by Stacia Stark (562 pages)

17. OTP of the year (you will go down with this ship!):
I’m sorry, but it’s Guy and Sienna in The Christmas You Found Me by Sarah Morgenthaler. LOL

18. Favorite non-romantic relationship of the year:
Kiela and her BFF, Caz the spider plant in The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst.
Also, Guy’s relationship with his daughter, Emma in The Christmas You Found Me by Sarah Morgenthaler.

19. Favorite book you read in 2024 from an author you’ve read previously:
Old Flames and New Fortunes by Sarah Hogle. Such a fun and whimsical book, as I have come to expect and adore from Sarah! I’m so excited to read the next book in the series this year.

20. Best book you read in 2024 that you read based SOLELY on a recommendation from somebody else:
Four Weekends and a Funeral by Ellie Palmer is a book I never would have picked up if the book’s publicist hadn’t reached out because she thought I’d like it. And I LOVED it. It’s got the perfect combination of feelings and lighter, funnier swoons. There’s also some While You Were Sleeping movie Easter eggs, which was fun.

21. Newest fictional crush from a book you read in 2024:
Shall I be a broken record? Let me see if I can find someone other than Guy… WAIT. The prompt specifies newest fictional crush. So that means Leo from We Three Kings by Kristen Bailey AND Alexander from Miracle on Ladies’ Mile by Joanna Shupe. You can’t make me pick one.

22. Best 2024 debut you read:
Never Blow a Kiss by Lindsay Lovise and One Last Shot by Betty Cayouette.

24. Most vivid setting you read this year:
Ok LOOK. It’s just gonna have to be The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst.

25. Book that put a smile on your face/was the most FUN to read:
The Honeymoon Crashers by Christina Lauren. I love a full-cast audiobook, and this is delightful even the second time around!

26. Book that made you cry or nearly cry in 2024:
The Christmas You Found Me by Sarah Morgenthaler

27. Hidden gem of the year:
The One with the Kiss Cam by Cindy Steel

28. Most unique book you read in 2024:
This should come as no surprise. It has a talking plant and merhorses and forest sprites and lots of jam. And it rains flower petals. The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst

39. Book that made you the maddest (doesn’t necessarily mean you didn’t like it):
Let’s not beat a dead horse, ok? I would love a CLo book that I will love this year to make up for it.

My Blogging/Bookish Life

1. Favorite review that you wrote in 2024:
So… I only wrote 14 reviews in 2024. That’s bad. I will do better. But I love all of them because they’re my thoughts and I do wish they got more attention, but oh well!

2. Best discussion/non-review post you had on your blog:
Any one of the 50+ Top Ten Tuesdays! I have so much fun making my weekly lists.

3. Best event that you participated in (author signings, festivals, virtual events, memes, etc.):
No events this year.

6. Most popular post this year on your blog (whether it be by comments or views):
Top Ten Favorite Books I Read in 2023 got the most comments!

7. Best bookish discovery (book related sites, book stores, etc.):
No new discoveries, I’m afraid!

8. Did you complete any reading challenges or goals that you had set for yourself at the beginning of this year:
I surpassed my goal of reading 52 books this year by reading 52!

Looking Ahead in 2025

1. Book you are most anticipating in 2025 (non-debut):
Onyx Storm by Rebecca Yarros!!!! I have been waiting for this day, and it’ll be here in less than two weeks! Ahhhh! I love this series, and am both nervous and excited about what Rebecca Yarros is going to put my beloved characters through. lol.

2. 2025 debut you are most anticipating:
It’s hard to pick one, so two it is! I’m excited about Any Trope but You by Victoria Lavine and Crash Landing by Annie McQuaid.

3. Sequel you are most anticipating in 2025:
Honestly, the only series book I’m pining for right now is Onyx Storm. lol. I don’t read many series that end on cliffhangers or feature the same main characters across the series, so I don’t really find myself anticipating the next book in the series for the same reasons as I used to. Now it’s usually just because I love the author and am excited for their next book.

4. One thing you hope to accomplish or do in your reading/blogging life in 2025?
Post more reviews! I have not loved writing them lately. lol. Maybe I can force myself to be ok with writing shorter reviews so the task doesn’t feel as daunting.

Do we have any answers in common?

Pick a question or two and answer them in the comments! Let’s discuss!


Top Ten Things I’m Thankful for in 2024

Posted November 25, 2024 by Jana in About Me, Top Ten Tuesday / 12 Comments

Welcome to another TTT! This week is Thanksgiving in the USA, so I thought a thankful freebie would be fun. This year has been hard for me, so I thought it would be therapeutic to set all that aside for a few minutes and reflect on what’s gone right for me and what I’m thankful for.

1. I am thankful for my mom and my sister. They are my biggest cheerleaders, my confidants, and my best friends. My mom and I laugh together, cry together, and are pretty much the same person. She also takes care of me and is always looking out for what I need.

2. I am thankful for all the other people in my life who pull for me. I’ve been getting some very small health answers and going through many medical tests that I hope will lead to larger answers that will improve my quality of life. I’ve found a couple of those rare people in the medical field who actually care and are trying to help me.

3. I am thankful that I get to live in such a beautiful place! Looking for hints that the seasons are changing is one of my favorite things to do, and we have had great seasons this year!

4. I am thankful for animals, whether they are mine, a friend’s, or a stranger’s on Instagram. They never cease to make me smile.

5. I am thankful for books. I love reading and escaping to new worlds and meeting new people. I have always loved historical romance, but I love it even more now. Social media has become a toxic storm, and I love going back to a simpler time of house parties and balls. I also love fantasy, which always provides the most amazing distraction.

6. I am thankful that I don’t have to worry about where my next meal will come from or where I will sleep tonight. I am so fortunate to have the things I really need.

7. I’m thankful for my education.

8. I’m thankful for music, and the ability I have to connect with it on such a deep level.

9. I’m thankful for my talents of creativity and singing.

10. I’m thankful for my Heavenly Father.

What’s the biggest thing you’re thankful for this year?

Happy Thanksgiving this week to all who celebrate!
And if this is a hard time of year for you, I’m sending you hugs!